Kinky anal & S-M sex is now the norm among heterosexuals

The late Senator Patrick Moynihan once coined an expression, “defining deviancy down,” to refer to a society lowering the bar for what was once considered deviant behavior and giving a pass to things it had once scorned.
“Defining deviancy down” has been going on in the U.S. for decades now. Instead of abating, its pace has quickened, resulting in the moral wasteland that surrounds us.
Like the curious phenomenon of middle-class whites imitating ghetto blacks (hip-hop clothing, rap “music,” gangsta talk & walk), heterosexuals are now mimicking the aberrant and hazardous-to-health sexual practices of homosexuals. The agents of corruption are the media and popular culture (movies, TV, music), except that in the case of the normalization of homosexuality, it is backed by the force of government and law (the Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage).
dinosaursA British woman, Rebecca Reid, who used to pride herself on doing kinky sex, now bemoans the disappearance of missionary-position “vanilla” sex. Below are excerpts from her article, “Have we forgotten how to have ‘normal’ sex?,” for The Telegraph, May 27, 2016:

As someone who took the “try anything once, twice if I like it” message to heart, I’ve never given vanilla sex much thought. You know – straight up, pretty pleasurable, missionary. No bells. No whistles. No leather.
But I’m going to say something I never thought I’d have cause to: I’m seriously worried about its future. 
Over the last couple of years I’ve noticed a slow, but steady, shift away from vanilla sex. […] At a dinner party a girl once told me I was the “most interesting person” she’d ever met, after I regaled her with stories of my sexual hijinks.
I’m not saying the only reason I’m invited to parties is to give an academic perspective on bondage, it’s just always been part of my charm. But lately? The shock value just isn’t there. […]
Well it seems like we’re getting raunchier. The British Sexual Fantasy Research Project have released stats this week, claiming that 62 per cent of Brits have had a fantasy about being either dominant or submissive in the bedroom. […]
For a long time people who had fetishes felt ashamed and lived in the shadows. But it seems to me, things are inverting. Wanting to be spanked, tied up or verbally degraded is pretty standard fare – but wanting tender, loving vanilla lovemaking? Apparently it’s getting harder and harder to find. […]

But what’s worrying me, is that the kind of violent sex that once took place between a mutually enthusiastic pair – and came with negotiations and safe words – is now happening on one-night stands. […]
I hear it again and again. Women go on online dates, end up in bed with a guy, and – without any negotiation or discussion – he tries to spank them. Or wants to have anal sex. Or a heavy handed semi-forced blow job. […]
It seems lazy to blame porn for this shift,  but I can’t help thinking it has to shoulder a whole lot of responsibility. Films that feature slower, more intimate sex between a couple are almost exclusively marketed as ‘female interest’. Somehow, vanilla sex – the type that would once have been considered ‘normal’ – has become a fetish or niche interest […]
And because it’s targeted solely at women, young men aren’t growing up with exposure to it. Instead they’re seeing anal, squirting, verbal abuse and fishooking (look it up, though not in the office) presented as a sexual fait accompli. […]

Note: Fish-hooking is the act of inserting a finger or fingers of one or both hands into the mouth, nostrils, vagina, or anus of a person, and pulling away from the centerline of the body, in most cases with the intention of pulling, tearing, or lacerating the surrounding tissue, thereby risking permanent damage. Sometimes, the term fish hooking refers to a type of eye gouging.

Another possible culprit is the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon. When a book sells as many copies as a religious text it’s unavoidable that it will make a mark on the worst of humankind. […]
There’s no shame in hating the idea of handcuffs and floggers. We’re running a very real risk of making women who don’t want to indulge in certain types of sex feel that they’re prudes. And there’s nothing sexy about that.

The moral of this story: Never underestimate the gullibility, suggestibility, and sheer stupidity of people. When given the slightest opportunity, human beings’ disposition is toward degeneracy, instead of toward the good and the light. Yet another testament to our fallen nature.
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~Eowyn

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Mark S. McGrew
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Mark S. McGrew

Dear Dr. Eowyn,
I have had these strong desires for years, to get in a big room, like a basket ball court, fill it with the Barack and Michelle Obama, and the mother in law and another 100 of his friends and let in 75 very horny, shot up with Viagra male Baboons. I would love to watch that.
Is that something suitable to invite my friends to, for a “group look”?
Or, am I a pervert?

evh
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evh

There’s an old saying down South, “Fighting cats have the most kittens.” But no kittens were ever conceived by kinky anal sex.

josephbc69
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I MUST be getting old: I thought our Sixties ‘liberated’ sex was the best, but this is simply appalling.
The day that tenderness dies from sexual love, the human race will have earned its self-imposed destruction, IMO. I say again: Appalling.

Steven Broiles
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We can blame a number of people for this sorry state of affairs, including, but not limited to, Hugh Hefner, Bob Guccione, Larry Flynt, Sigmund Freud, Edward Bernays and a number of other people. Again, I will bring up the name of Nietzsche, whom Rebecca refers to, whether she knows it or not: YES, we have been witnessing, over the past 50 or more years, a “transvaluation of all values,” whereby things are morphed into their opposites. And we can blame the MADWOMAN Margaret Sanger, who, in addition to giving us her permanent Judgment-Inducing Plague, put her own children in… Read more »

truckjunkie
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It’s my opinion that a lot of the acceptance of this aberrant behavior is related to the children being raised with less and less Morality and NO mention of specifically what the parameters of Right and Wrong are. Thus,the kids grow up thinking that anything they can think of is okay to do,unless it’s illegal. (Many expand on that-“It’s only illegal if you get caught.”.

MomOfIV
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MomOfIV

unfortunately, this is not surprising…I remember the ending of the movie “kingsman: the secret service” that came out a couple years ago…at the “end” (pun intended) of the movie, a raunchy “princess” offered her rear to the victor and everyone in the theater was enthralled and cheered the victor onward. I was shocked and disgusted at how hollyweird was promoting sodomy. Everyone accepted it as “normal” that the female should offer anal sex and the victor was more than happy to oblige. if “everyone” is having anal sex and/or wants to be dominated or tied up then the sexual “relations”… Read more »

Dan
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Dan

Michael Jones’s Libido Dominandi is subtitled Sexual Liberation and Political Control. People ruled by their base passions are more easily ruled over by an appeal to their passions and their sense of entitlement to gratification of their animal instincts. Sexual degeneracy is old hat these days, and the Jews are now pushing torture porn in movies and TV, and it may be the dominant theme in fashion and “music” these days, taking over from MK Uktra sex-kitten programming, all the better to prepare people’s minds to accept that man is an animal no better than others, before the intended replay… Read more »

Rocky
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Rocky

“The orgasm is the only earthly infinity. Therefore it is either an infinite good or an infinite evil.” -Walker Percy- If one accepts the vision of Hell at Fatima more souls are there because of sexual sin. Sex is a beautiful gift from God to enhance a marriage between a man and woman even after the child bearing years are over. Is it necessary? Of course not, but our warped culture says you must have tons of sex at any age to be truly happy. Nonsense. And stay clear of internet porn. It’s the Devil’s latest trick.

My Husband's Wife
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My Husband's Wife

Dear readers,
If you have a moment, it’s worth checking out this video by E Michael Jones on how “Sexual Liberty” is a psy-op for Political Control over a nation. It aligns with the good doctor’s material on this site and expands on the “how” and “why.” I appreciate all of you who are awake and not buying into this GARBAGE propaganda. Cause that’s all it is, however it’s destructive to our country as a whole as well as each individual’s soul.
https://youtu.be/BZSBFxanDAw

Leeann
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Leeann

Dr. Eowyn, Steven Broiles, Joseph, Auntie Lulu, and Trunkjunkie: This is a very interesting topic, and one which has been a heavy on my heart for a long time. When I was in public school, as a very young child, we said the Lord’s prayer each morning, the Pledge of Allegiance, and read a daily devotional, all before the start of class. Little girls were feminine, wore dresses and ribbons in their hair. Little boys were usually scrubbed clean, and wore tidy clothing. We never said or heard the word “sex” much less, know what it meant, exactly. Even for… Read more »