Japan's worst day for teen suicides. "Collective thinking" part of the problem?

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japanese youthJapan’s “killer collectivism” has been around for some time.
CNN: Nanae Munemasa was at elementary school when the bullying started. The 17-year-old student says she was beaten by boys with broom sticks, slapped in the girls’ bathroom, and even attacked during a swimming lesson. “I was the last one to get out of the pool,” she said. “A brush flew out of nowhere and it hit me underwater. I nearly drowned. I had a huge bump on my forehead.”

Nanae started skipping school, and even thought about taking her own life.

Suicide spike

She’s not alone. More Japanese school pupils commit suicide on September 1 each year than on any other date, according to figures collated by Japan’s suicide prevention office over a period of more than 40 years.

The grim spike in the statistics is linked to the typical start date of the new school term after the summer holiday has ended. “The long break from school enables you to stay at home, so it’s heaven for those who are bullied,” Nanae said. “When summer ends, you have to go back. And once you start worrying about getting bullied, committing suicide might be possible.”

Japan has one of the highest rates of suicide in the world, and it is the leading cause of death among those aged 15-39. The government’s figures show that in total 18,048 under-18s took their own lives between 1972 and 2013.

Nanae said she became a target for bullies after she transferred schools for a short time before returning — meaning she was branded as a truant. When the bullying worsened, she considered suicide, but did not go through with it. “I thought that actions such as cutting my wrist would cause trouble for my parents, and committing suicide would not solve anything.”

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Collective thinking

In the end, Nanae decided to stop going to school and stayed at home for nearly a year.

Nanae’s mother, Mina Munemasa, was supportive of her daughter’s decision. “Nanae was saying things like, ‘If I jump off the Tokyo Tower, I think I can fly,” Mina said. “I don’t think school is a place where you have to risk your life to go.”

Nanae thinks the Japanese education system’s focus on collective thinking is at the root cause of the problem.

“In Japan, you have to fall in line with other people. And if you cannot do that, you’re either ignored or bullied,” she said. “You are required to have a unified opinion, and it crushes the uniqueness every person has. But that uniqueness is not something to destroy.”

Some experts agree. Child psychiatrist Dr. Ken Takaoka said the suicide rate increases when school restarts because schools “prioritize collective (action). Children who do not get along in a group will suffer.”

Living hell

To raise awareness of the issue, a Japanese non-profit organization, Futoko Shimbun, is even printing a newspaper for children who stay home to avoid bullying. Keiko Okuchi, one of the organization’s representatives, said the problem is exacerbated by a culture that dictates that going to school is the only option. “It is a living hell for children who know that they’ll be bullied at school, yet they have no other choice but to go,” she said.

Now, Nanae has returned to her studies and is also singing in a pop band called Nanakato along with her brother. Nanae hopes that one day they will have enough fans to fill Tokyo’s famous arena Budokan, and play their music in a foreign country.

Nanae is also trying to help others being bullied by writing a blog about what she went through. “It would be great if (the blog) helps at least one person stop thinking about committing suicide,” she said.

Nanae’s mother said her daughter’s time on the Internet was a key factor in helping her get through the bullying. “By creating connections with people in Japan as well as other countries, she was able to regain her confidence,” Mina said. “Adults tend to say that the Internet is dangerous but there are definitely some children who are saved by it.”

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0 responses to “Japan's worst day for teen suicides. "Collective thinking" part of the problem?

  1. Add the fact that Japanese young people aren’t marrying or even having sex, one wonders if the country is dying.
    https://fellowshipoftheminds.com/2012/03/23/increasing-numbers-of-japans-youth-are-asexual/

     
  2. We have some dear Japanese friends and were just talking about this, this Spring. They live near Tokoyo and said the pressure is really on the kids. They start school a little older, but stay longer. Pressure for a good education is tantamount as well as the right schools. Money is power and if you are a new student without money, it is hard to fit in. The Japanese are some of the most prideful race there is. Honor to the family is important. Shame and failure is unacceptable.
    I watch lots of Asian TV and have also seen this with the Chinese and Koreans.
    Sons of rich business owning families are considered Princes and are treated as such. Good looks and weight goes hand in hand with the kids. They are very vain. The parents still make life decisions for the kids as well as marriage matches. They refuse to let their children marry beneath them. Many hire match makers. Status is important. Parents still want full control, even after marriage.
    Some families still live in the old tradition where the first son, when marries, brings his wife home to live, and she basically becomes an indentured slave. She cleans, cooks and does it all regardless of whether the mother in law is able to. Most are quite able to work, but refuse. Many young women have decided this isn’t the life they want and have put the brakes on marriage. Soon marry late and decide on no children. It is common for as many as four generations to live in one house.
    The last decade or so, Japanese young people have started to buck the system. Many decide not to marry, or marry really late. They clash with their parents that are still honoring tradition while the young want to become more universal.
    But, I see some of the same actions in American kids these days.
    Koreans are very clannish and really object to marrying outside of their race.
    Many even refuse to learn English when they choose to live here.
    I think with all the pressure within their society grows the need for suicide.
    I too, think Japan is in trouble with a non growing population.

     
  3. Fabulous post! How very sad for a people who pride themselves with education and success. I didn’t realize these traditions were going on.

     
  4. I pray for all people who feel they are at their end and believe suicide is the only option. I’m glad Nanae had clarity (grace) and realized suicide was not the answer and sought help from her family…she sounds like a bright girl.

     
  5. Doesn’t happen just in these news-worthy places of recent interest. My psychologist husband and I (health ed at the time) worked for US Public Health Service, Indian Health…and the reason we were transferred from a reservation in Utah to California 30 years ago— with a 2-day notice —was a rash of adolescent suicides at Indian BoardingSchools…..10’s and 20’s at a time at far-flung schools across the West and Intermountain West…..and, YES…they occurred in September, just as schools were re-opening from summer break …because we were sent forth to a boarding school in CA first of October (and we’re still here—tho not the same jobs) when the Feds began to investigate support services. We had to go where there were none…..I don’t think these Native American suicides at boarding schools were for the exact same reasons as those in Japan…but there are related issues—-and THAT’S a WHOLE ‘NOTHER POST.

     
  6. The kids in the picture don’t look that great because they’re so homogeneous. People like that are boring and unsatisfying.

     

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