Enlightenment: Sleep around, date less and drop your expectations

DailyMail: Women should embrace numerous sexual partners instead of channeling their energy into finding ‘the one’, a new book advises. Sex coach and midwife Lauren Brim, 31, grew up in a Christian family in Orange County, California, which taught sex is sacred in marriage. It is global a social construct, she says, built to wound women sexually.
Now, with eight partners on the go and about 100 under her belt, LA-based Brim insists she has been enlightened. ‘Sex is really energising. What’s tiring is dating,’ she told The Telegraph.‘Women are so insistent on partnership and marriage because culture gives them no other format for sustained and socially approved sexuality and love.’
brim2In her recently-released book, The New Rules Of Sex, Brim describes her colorful catalogue of sexual experiences – sex with exes, with women, with numerous people at once, in all manner of unusual locations.
And she reveals midwifery led her to a sexual awakening. ‘I was watching women giving birth,’ she explains in a YouTube promotion, ‘and I was seeing that women who were in touch with their sexuality had much easier birth experiences – sometimes orgasmic birth experiences; empowering experiences. Women who weren’t in touch with their sexuality really struggled. They had a lot of interventions a lot of problems.’
The realization provoked her to analyze the rules of sex in western society, she says. ‘I was raised in a Christian family and was getting this message from my family, from society, from the church, that sexuality was really not ok; that it was something you could have with your husband when you got married.
‘Later in my adult life I got more messages from society that it was ok to have sex but only with someone that you saw a potential relationship with; with someone that could potentially become your husband. That didnt feel great either. So I was suffering a lot with how to be sexual. I had this sexuality inside me and never felt like I could express it without getting in trouble for it.’
When she turned 27, finding a relationship became near-impossible. ‘I looked around and saw there were many single people around me, all of them attractive, talented and intelligent people,’ she told The Telegraph. ‘Some of them hadn’t been in a relationship for years. I don’t believe in putting your energy into waiting for the perfect partner to come along. I believe in looking at what’s there.’
Brim, a trained dancer who has performed with New York City’s Radio City Rockettes, insists the book is not a How To guide – rather a reconfiguration of sexual rules.
She says readers will be empowered to stop expecting love from sex, which should be celebrated in its own right. ‘These expectations I had of my sexual partners – “why didnt they love me? Sex and relationships and love were knotted up and I needed to unravel them. Where do sexual ideas come from? Why are we telling women they can only have relationships? We need to set women free because women are really sexual and they’re powerful.
Her message to the female population? ‘Relate to people differently, have less expectations.’
This “newly-released” book debuted four months ago. Guess she needed some press since it’s #123,532 on Amazon’s best seller rank. I’m sure it will be a big hit with the feminazis.

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0 responses to “Enlightenment: Sleep around, date less and drop your expectations

  1. God will hold us accountable for everything we do

  2. Nothing new here…… we’ve always had whores and skanks in our midst…..
    …. and the worthless men who associate with them.
    Which is why God gave us…… antibiotics!

  3. Lauren Brim’s advice to young women to sleep around is counter to every social science study of the hook-up “culture” which finds that women who engage in casual meaningless sex (‘hook-ups’) feel worthless after. Simply put, Brim is toxic.

  4. She wants to create a dream world to any young male: a society full of women willing to have all sorts of kinky sex for free without expecting anything in return!!!

  5. One can reasonably assume that this “woman” if she could be called such, has sold something of value in exchange for something of no value, and is doing the standard evil “misery loves company” malarkey. How terribly tragic… even more so for the fact she wants to spread that disease, thinking it is health.

  6. Jollies über Alles– isn’t that the rationale of the drug addict? No standards or giving a crap about anyone else, just gettin’ off. That’s “empowerment”?

  7. It’s down right creepy to think that young women are seduced into believing this crock of . . . . . After you are all used up, what partner of any consequence would want you for a serious relationship? Excellent post!

  8. She no doubt doesn’t believe it now,but give her 10 years,and she’ll be exactly what we already see in the trash heap of society-worn out,used up worthless women so decrepit even stray dogs won’t lie down beside them,let alone a life-long Companion. She’s the Poster-Child for the Liberal way of life.

  9. I guess if you can’t find males to objectify you, then you can objectify yourself. She’s basically a self-glorified whore. I’m sure her family is very proud.

  10. We have removed the word “responsibility” from our list of Great Expectations! “All play and no work” is the current mantra….


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