Sexuality expert says parents should ask for consent to change a baby’s diaper

Liberals and their whacky ideas…

From NY Post: An author and educator has been ridiculed after saying parents should ask babies for consent before a diaper change and watch for a response through body language.

Deanne Carson said in an ABC News segment that families could set up “a culture of consent” in the home by asking newborns: “I’m going to change your nappy now, is that OK?”

The CEO of youth relationship service Body Safety Australia added: “Of course, a baby’s not going to respond, ‘Yes, Mom, that’s awesome, I’d love to have my nappy changed,’ but if you leave a space and wait for body language and wait to make eye contact, then you’re letting that child know that their response matters.”

The segment was highlighted on Sky News Australia’s “Outsiders” show, with Rowan Dean introducing the clip with a dig at the rival channel. “This is just superb and it was on YOUR ABC earlier this evening, which you paid for this leftie lunacy, have a look,” he said.

“There we go, Ross, consent for changing nappies,” he told co-host Ross Cameron. “I’m sure that that would, I think that might get a bit, er, anyway we won’t go there.”

The video was shared on YouTube, racking up more than 20,000 views, before Carson made a statement on Facebook in response to her vocal critics.

“I gave an interview the other day about teaching consent to young children,” she said. “Sadly, some people have chosen to ridicule me (oh no! Pink hair! Must be a lesbian!) and the notion of giving infants bodily autonomy (poo in nappies har har amiright?!)

“For those people I’m posting this. One in three girls, one in seven boys will be sexually assaulted by the time they are eighteen years old. One in twelve girls will be sexually abused before their sixth birthday.

The work we do with children, teachers and parents is international best practice in abuse prevention. It teaches children their rights AND their responsibilities and connects them with people who care and can help. It invites their parents into the discussion and is sensitive to cultural and family values.

“Troll me all you want, add to your blog inches, but remember that when you do, you are negating the voices of these brave survivors of sexual abuse.”

Her remarks elicited a mixed response, with one Facebook user commenting, “What you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard,” while another said, “You’re doing such an excellent job, hence the reason they’re trolling.”

Danny Snee said it was “an insult to genuine sexual assault victims to compare their experience to a baby having a nappy changed without giving the right expressions.”

Skye Chalker said she was a survivor of sexual abuse and thought Carson “possibly could be” going too far with her teachings, but believed that “teaching children what is ok touching and not ok touching and if they don’t feel comfortable they should say something is a good thing.”

A group called Facts Without Frenzy said Carson was “right on the money,” adding that they had seen “similar denigration of other educators who work in similar areas such as sexuality education and the awful trolling and outright misplaced hate directed their way.”

But former New South Wales Senate candidate Kirralie Smith posted on Facebook: “This goes way beyond lunacy! This is neglect and child abuse!!!!

“Many children never want you to change their nappy. Asking them for consent is a serious indication of severe mental problems. Nappies must be changed to prevent serious skin damage and pain for the child. What is worse is the fact the ABC actually spent our tax dollars on this moronic opinion.”

DCG

58 responses to “Sexuality expert says parents should ask for consent to change a baby’s diaper

  1. Welcome to Crazy State! Some people fervently believe that children should be wards of the state. When that happens, the parents themselves will have become wards of a state run by control freak dictators.

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    • Yes I saw this already. This is what I’m talking about when I talk about “permission”. These tyrannical loons don’t wait for OUR permission. They just DO whatever their owner’s please. If we don’t stop them, COLD, they’ll win. The do not wait for our permission. If we didn’t ask them to do this why are they at it?

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  2. I tried it to my 3mo old gdaughter and she replied to me…wtf, go to America!!!

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  3. I’m sure the baby’s body language would be his/her little middle finger.

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  4. Is Deanne Carson a man or a woman? Or one of the other 80+ alleged genders?

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  5. Where this is going—some day girls will have oral sexual acts performed on them by lesbians in positions of authority like Deanne, and the parents and courts be damned if the child later claims it was consensual. There is no other reason for having a lesbian deliver this official ABC policy statement, cleverly being passed off as “mildly controversial” matter of genital touching being a child’s sole prerogative to forbid or allow.

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    • Hey Dan,
      From a lesbain sex offender treatment expert, advanced degreed practitioner, I say to you……PHVUKK YOURSELF YOU BRAIN DEAD AZZHOLE.

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      • If you are such an advanced degreed practitioner/expert, I would expect you to provide a much more constructive rebuttal rather than using a typical Alinsky rhetorical tactic.

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        • DCG . . . . Thank you for calling him on that. I for one would still like to know, does the woman with pink hair actually have any children of her own? Is she heterosexual, so many of the experts we see in this field tend to be lesbians. I just would be interested to know her mindset. Now I can realize that children should be training to have boundaries . . . but really, if some deviant has their mind set on violating a baby or toddler–do you really think that their saying “NO” is going to stop that atrocity from happening?

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  6. Well, generally, when an idiot does something like this it presupposes that there’s a problem. I am not aware that there is any problem with having two genders as God designed. It is only a “problem” for insane perverts that are unhappy with nature as it is.

    I’m sure there are those out there who wish that humans mated with members of their own gender through their armpits or something. Who knows? Where did this idea come from that every deviant must be pleased?

    Further, where is it written that all citizens must admire deviancy? To top it off, when did it become acceptable to teach deviancy in school?

    All of this is totally out of control. The Bolsheviks know full well that if people just “do” things they are seldom stopped. That’s how this whole “left vs right”, Trump vs Whatever, is being played. Anything they want to do is simply portrayed as something that Trump hates and they get it.

    The New Odor is up and running. People had better put the brakes on this soon or they will find themselves in the Gulag for failure to worship Satan.

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  7. Deane Carson must not know what “age of consent” means.

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  8. Nappies should not be changed until the child has a complete understanding regarding all the consequences of the decision and there is notarized signed statement expressing that child’s wishes. (Sarc.)

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  9. I am a stay at home dad. My girls are both under 3. Call me crazy but I have always told / asked them before changing thier diapers. I also tell / ask them before I open thier windows, knock on the doors before opening. I dont wait for body language mind you, i just do it.

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    • I know what you mean kjf. I’m a grandmom and I’ve always told my grandchildren what I’m going to do (when it’s something I’m doing for them) before I do it, such as changing their diaper. I don’t ask for permission or seek consent, mind you. I do what is necessary for their health and wellbeing.
      What this womyn advocates is pushing the whole “rights of the child” thing which has been part of the U.N.’s (UNESCO’s) agenda since their inception. And “Dr.” Spock also was the mouthpiece in the 1950s for the idea that mother’s no longer knew how to raise children and needed ((experts)) to ‘advise’ them.

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    • kjf . . . . Sounds like a pretty good Dad to me!!!!!

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  10. “Excuse me, little baby? Do you want me to take your diaper full of smelly, runny poo and replace it with a clean one? Or are you okay laying in this filth?”

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  12. while they at it maybe baby can give mom permission to burp him/her

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  13. The sexuality “expert” sets off my gaydar big time. Why would anyone listen to such an idiot? The stupid TV lady in yellow is probably childless and doesn’t have a clue when she suggests people follow the “expert’s” advice. Her two co-anchors are actually parents and set her straight (pun intended)..

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  14. I would like to know where Carson got her figures for sexual abuse of children. Also, what were the criteria applied, that is, what acts constituted sexual assault? Who collected this data and where is it published? Are the true figures for sexual assault of children really that high? I am not denying that sexual assault of children takes place; I am asking how the figures presented to the public are gathered and by whom. My ultimate concern is to what degree these figures can be trusted. Some adults claim that goodbye hugs and kisses done without the child’s consent are abusive. When I was a young boy, I recoiled whenever a grownup hugged or kissed me. I don’t know if mine was a natural or a cultural reaction of young, American boys (Girls are icky! Kissing is icky!), but that is beside the point. Wisely, no one ever asked my consent. I say wisely, because wisdom comes with age, not with youth. As I got older, I began to understand the enormous emotional investment adults have in the young and how these hugs and kisses were expressions of genuine love. These adults felt a powerful need to express their love, but I was too immature to accept it or to understand it. Had I been “empowered” to reject their advances, and had I done so, I would never be able to get over the shame and guilt of rejecting their love. They are all dead now, so I couldn’t go back to them to make amends. What is worse than rejecting love, and what is more hurtful? I raise this issue because it seems to me that children’s rights advocates, or at least some of them, would have us raise a generation of egocentric, selfish individuals who cannot respect the feelings of others or accommodate their innocent, emotional needs. What I’m talking about is not the the same as telling children that they should submit to actual abuse, which is something altogether different. What distinguishes abuse is that it is an act done out of selfishness and not out of love. This distinction of motive must always be borne in mind.

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    • Joe- your penultimate sentence: “What distinguishes abuse is that it is an act done out of selfishness and not out of love.”
      Of course, if you listen to child molesters, they’ll swear (and may actually think or wish to believe) that their abusive (and, for now) illegal actions are committed out of “love” for the child/underage person, and not out of selfishness.
      We have to be careful because the enemy has appropriated words and changed their meaning(s).

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      • Thank you, stlonginus, for pointing that out.
        That sentence made me uncomfortable as well.

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      • Virtually all of them have this malady. They always know better what you or someone else should do. “Motive” does not make a wrong action right. For the left morals are always subjective. They do not acknowledge a divine master.

        Whenever someone starts to reason from a bad premise it doesn’t matter how “logical” they are. You don’t get extra points because you meant well. No one that I know asked these self-described “experts” to step in and correct the parenting roles and responsibilities. You don’t really have to know much more about her to know she’s a NWO twit.

        These creature’s starting point is always that their parents and ancestors were stupid, superstitious louts who knew nothing. That is why they find themselves in this cruel world unable to find rainbow unicorns and money trees. Considering why we do things like we do never enters their heads because they “know” that the world is so screwed up because we’re idiots.

        This is how we get smelly, obnoxiously arrogant kids shrieking at us about the Second Amendment along with his gender-challenged cousin that looks as if she were run over by a lawn mower. I mean, really!

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  15. Another, more practical comment. Some children are very fussy, and if adults indulge this, the child will simply grow up to be very difficult to get along with.

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  16. ROFLMAO. Once I was doing Nana duty w/my only grandchild while her parents were out of town for 4 days. By evening of the last day, we’d had our fill of each other & she refused to have her pooped-diaper changed or take her bath subsequently…..She said verbally to me( she was a very early talker, & as she hid behind a chair), in her own way—-“Nana, you just go home now & take care of Maggie (my dog) & I will stay here & play.”

    Dang! I didn’t even NEED “body language.” I was TOLD. So, according to this miscreant, Deanne Carson, I should have just packed up/gone home—let the kid alone, unsupervised at under 2 year’s old…. b/c I was directed—-not by body language, but by specific request—-to do so by my year/some months’ old grandchild—allow the pooped diaper intact….allow the under-2-yr-old alone to fend for herself…..Pretty sure this would pass muster w/her parents OR A COURT OF LAW (SARC).

    I just want this confirmed: this “woman” Deanne Carson—-has she ever raised a child of her own…is she a grandparent, aunt, has she EVER EVER in a lifetime yet cared for the minute-to-minute needs of a newborn-to-potty-trained human being? MY radar says a big “NO!” What an abject IDIOT!

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    • CalGirl . . . . I am absolutely in agreement with you. I think this woman is long on advice, and very short on actual experience. She is an abject “IDIOT” As you have pointed out, two year olds have just learned about the word “NO” and they are going to use it every time and in every situation they can. They are just beginning to learn that they are autonomous, and the power that gives them is wonderful to behold–thus, at the drop of a hat they are saying “NO” to anything that is proposed to them. It may not even be the particular thing being proposed to them . . . they just like the power that saying that word gives them. That is why there is the name for that state of childhood growth . . .it is called the terrible twos.

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  17. Remember the golden worlds of Hillary Clinton: “Listen, the average Democrat voter is stupid.”

    Many places out there now, childless moronic women and lazy men are triumphing the cause as if it is the next thing since gay marriage (which they of course unequivocally support of course)

    THIS is why fighting tyranny to the death is preferable to slavery. They will decide when and when you can’t wipe yourself. Or your infants. Imagine them dying in their own refuse, covered in flies? THAT’s the demonic intention of all this. Death camps. Insanity. Rape. Madness.

    Lord Jesus, come quickly. Or give us the strength and unity to resist and throw back these madmen and women. Let THEM stew in their own detritus!

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  18. I honestly don’t know how much more of this leftist bullshit I can stand. It’s like the world is descending into insanity while Satan laughs heartily at us. St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle.

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    • Ken . . . . I more than agree with you! I yearn for the day when this nonsense is over, and St Michael the Archangel will lead the forces of righteousness in defense of the those who love the Lord.

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  19. Carson gives talks to school and parent groups according to the “Safe Schools” programs philosophy [more recognizable as CSE in America]. There are testimonials on her site. Pasted here are 4 testimonials from kids
    she has spoken to – note No.4 ………

    Responses include:
    “No, you won’t get pregnant if you eat apple seeds” (Grade 2)
    “Mothers don’t vomit their babies up” (Grade 3)
    “It’s a nice idea to invent waterproof pads for swimming but it has an inherent design flaw” (Grade 5)
    “And thanks for letting me know that some people use vibrators for stress relief” (Grade 6)

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    • NAMNOW . . . . It is sickening that garbage like this would need to be taught to today’s children.

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      • The only people who think these perversions “NEED” to be taught to anyone, let alone children, are the perverted and deranged who are so prideful, they can’t/won’t admit they’re perverted and deranged, and who don’t want to feel alone in their perversions and derangement, AND who, most especially, want to sully the souls of the innocent. Tell me that isn’t demonic. The first of the Capital Sins is pride.

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  20. The entire world is going insane and everyone is hopping aboard the Crazy Train!
    There is a concerted effort to destroy and obliterate the nuclear family, for this simple reason: It was created and ordained by God Almighty, and it usually works.
    Why do we need SEXUAL DEVIANTS to teach us anything about sexual relations, those things that individual people can usually find out about from their friends and doctors?

    And as I have said before, in response to other posts, related to other topics, applies here, too: We are witnessing the institutionalization of mental illness. Don’t let this lady’s Wedgewood hair and pleasant demeanor fool you!
    And don’t be fooled by what these DEGENERATES say or imply: A number of people CAN and DO remember what it was like to be an infant. I certainly do.
    Well. At the age of 62 I have resigned myself to the simple fact I will, in all likelihood, have to endure this insanity for the rest of my life. I try to isolate myself from it as much as possible. Hopefully, I’ll die before they cart me off to the nursing home. Sigh….

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    • Steven . . . . Well said. I am with you, my greatest fear is being sent to a nursing home, where pretty much the end of your thinking days are over. Unless you have the money to go to a very high class, expensive nursing home, then probably you will be treated better.

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  21. Michael J. Garrison

    Oh…my!! How Father must hang His head in disbelief. No doubt Father will ask this slime for permission just before He toast’s their stupid butts.
    NOT!!!!!
    Lefty’s admit that they are furthering Commie-ism. The Christ told the Apostles to fish from the RIGHT side of the boat….not the left (where their nets came up empty). When Christ was crucified, the mal-factor on the RIGHT SIDE of Christ was saved. The one on the left cursed The Christ.
    The Christ sits at the RIGHT HAND of Father….not the left.
    The Locust Army Commander (saudi arabia, Crown Prince MBS) bought the painting last year that depicts Christ holding the world (crystal ball) in his left hand…….The Christ WOULD NEVER hold the world in His left hand……it IS in the RIGHT HAND of The Christ. I say again….The World IS IN The Right Hand of The Christ. this very day.
    Idiots like this woman will find themselves on the “left side” of Heaven….which leads to Hell/perishing.
    I hope I got that RIGHT. (and I know I do)

    (ladies, you ARE Father’s most beautiful creation. The Fallen Angels came to earth because of your beauty (this is biblical). And to you ladies who are Mother’s, I say: HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!!!)

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  22. Michael J. Garrison

    This is off-topic, but please read it (as you forgive me).
    ISIS is not just an Army….it is an ideology. It is also satanic to the max.
    Folks, read…this…carefully…….THERE ARE NOT FEMALES IN HEAVEN.
    Women DO GO TO HEAVEN WHEN THEY PASS AWAY…..but it is biblical that in Heaven, in the Presence of Father….we are ALL “sons of God.” A woman alive today is a women. But when she dies, her soul returns to Father as a “son” of God. This is why the fallen angels were so anxious to breed the women on Earth, they’d never seen a woman until this earth-age.
    My point here is that ISIS is, in reality, Satan. Even worse, it’s satan posing an ideology that hates men (sons of God) in favor of ISIS (women) who are only women on earth, not in Heaven.
    Hollywood’s down-fall is of ISIS. As a stuntman for Hollywood (in my younger days) I can tell you that women Producers were the worst with the casting-couch, but that’s all being covered up for the purpose of a Satanic Agenda that involves killing the sons of God, and building-up the woman, even though she was taken from Adam (and not the other way around).
    The “expert” in this article is of ISIS, or, is pushing the ISIS Agenda.
    This is happening in ALL area’s…..education, politics, etc.

    If you think things are upside down right now…wait five minutes. It gets worse.

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  23. Michael J. Garrison

    ISIS….or, Satan…is only the king of THIS world. Not the next.
    Just like women are only female in this earth-age…and not in the next world age.

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    • And this world is not really our home, which is a lovely thought.

      Jesus said: “My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?” -John 14:2

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  24. It’s just THIS kind of philosophy that created the “Special Snowflakes” that are currently ruining the country with their ME-ME-ME-ME-ME culture,their throwing out of God,scruples,Morality and their inherent lack of Common Sense. Has this been a series of coincidences? I think not…..

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  25. No coincidences. Deanne Carson has been programmed for her task – she and many others.

    An interview that never gets old is the one G. Edward Griffin did with KGB defector Yuri Bezmenov in the mid eighties. This is a short 14 minute excerpt from the longer version where Yuri describes current and future characters like Deanne Carson. He said when their tasks are fulfilled, they too become disposable.

    We are witnessing ideological subversion – in simpler terms demoralization or psy ops. Yuri knew of what he spoke. Three generations are needed to completely destroy what we used to think of as normal living. “They” have almost reached the goal.

    In Sweden the word for “she” used be “hun”. The Swedish word for “he” was “han”. Not to offend anyone both females and males are now “hen”. This is no joke, wish it were.

    Ideological Subversion: An Interview with Yuri Bezmenov

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    • Profundities simply and clearly stated, truths needed for our survival.

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      • G. Edward Griffin’s entire interview with Yuri Bezmenov (not his real name) should be required viewing for EVERY single American.
        I “love” when Bezmenov states (@ minute 9:00) that Americans think they’re living in “peace time”. But we are NOT and we haven’t been for a long, long time. Most war is psychological and economic. Americans have not had peace since at least 1913 (probably before). The subversion is INCREMENTAL, slow, and ONGOING.
        There has been a TOTAL war against Americans like I say, since at least 1913 when the Federal Reserve was sneakily put in place right before Christmas by a few members of Congress and when the income tax was instituted. (“Income” had NEVER been defined as a person’s WAGES before then. If I’m not mistaken, “income” had meant profits made in overseas ventures.) Nevertheless, the Fed Reserve (a private banking cartel, which creates money AT DEBT to the American people –rather than Congress issuing money which is what the Constitution provides) was put in place, as was the income tax.

        Add to that the “innovation” of television shortly after WWII, and you have money control and mind control. Add to that the take over by the ((German)) school of thought ((the Frankfurt School)) in education; add to that the slow placing of ((Communists)) at the judgeship levels/courts; add to that ((9-11)) and the encroaching police state, and the military-industrial-pharmaceutical complex, and you have a recipe for the complete take-down of a nation….regardless of whether we have weapons or a second amendment. Of course, the fact that there are plenty of weapons still to be found, from sea to shining sea, is a bit of a problem for the cannibal elite. But have no fear, they NEVER leave ANYTHING to chance. I’m sure they’ve got several plans to dust off and implement to take care of that sort of “known known”, as Donald Rumsfeld so famously stated.

        Personally, I think turnabout is fair play. What was done by the Jacobins in France to those who didn’t want to play along with the Commie take over in France and the elimination of their Catholic monarchies, should be done to most of the ‘elite’ in this country. After all, all ((they)) understand is force.

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    • That’s not all the residents of Scandinavia are subjected to:

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  26. traildustfotm

    wow

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  27. Reblogged this on necltr and commented:

    An example of a problem we face in the person of educator Deanne Carson; its cause and solution presented by Yuri Bezmenov. In my opinion.

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  28. My mother, if she were alive, would be rolling on the floor with laughter at this.

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