The real war on women.
From Daily Mail: A controlling company director who bullied his teenage girlfriend by banning her from using a phone and throwing away her clothes in a bid to force her into marriage has escaped jail.
During a hearing in Manchester this week, the court heard how 32-year-old Imraan Hasham called his young girlfriend a ‘slag’ and would tell her to put her ‘t*** away’ if she wore revealing clothes.
Rachel Essaid met the businessman when she was just 17 at a nightclub in Bolton. Hasham lied about his age, telling the teenager he was 20 and the pair embarked on a relationship which quickly became abusive, a court heard.
But Magistrates took pity on 32-year-old Imraan Hasham, who admitted one count of coercive control, after hearing about how the case might affect his chauffeuring business.
Through a statement to the police, she told the court Hasham wanted to marry her in a mosque and preferred it if she stayed home to cook and clean. She told how she was forced to keep the blinds closed when she was in the house so people wouldn’t look at her.
Hasham admitted engaging in controlling and coercive behaviour during a court hearing at Manchester Magistrate’s Court this week. But he was sparred jail after saying the future of his business was now ‘up in the air’ as a result of his arrest.
The victim’s ordeal began after she met Hasham in March 2016 at the Level nightclub in Bolton. They embarked in a year-long relationship which ended in March last year after police were called when Hasham threw Miss Essaid onto his bed and tried to smother her during an argument when she tried to leave his house to see her family. He bit her on the hand so that she couldn’t use her phone and later threatened to kill Miss Essaid’s stepfather when he helped her pick up her belongings from Hasham’s home.
Officers discovered Hasham had a dark past having previously served an eight and a half year stretch over a terrifying bank raid during which a woman cashier was kidnapped at gunpoint. He also had convictions for a criminal damage and affray.
In a statement Miss Essaid who has had to undergo counselling told detectives: ‘He does not like me having friends. He calls them slags. For a while now I have been wanting to end the relationship but I feel I cannot get away from him. He says that my life would be ‘s**t’ without him. I am scared of him. He has said in the past that he would get his gun and shoot me or smash me in the face with a bottle. I feel that he does not want anyone to see me. I am not allowed to open the blinds or go out. I have no self-confidence and feel worthless. I have lost all my independence and I fear I am not strong enough to say ‘no’ if he contacts me.’
Prosecuting, Matthew Treece said: ‘He told her he was 20 but was actually 32. The relationship was initially good and she started staying at his house frequently. She described the defendant as sometimes nice but controlled certain aspects of her life. He would take her to and from work and wouldn’t allow her to use her mobile phone. He would also make comments about her makeup and the way she looked. He has taken items of her clothing and thrown it away because he didn’t like them.’
Mr. Treece told magistrates Miss Essaid was scared to leave. He said: ‘She said that she thinks he gives her gifts to have power over her and that she wanted to leave the relationship but was scared that she couldn’t get away. She was scared that he would follow her and turn up at her work and claims the relationship was not normal and the way he was with her was not normal.’
The court heard how the victim felt Hasham wanted her to stay at home and do the chores. Mr. Treece said: ‘ She said she felt that he didn’t want anyone to see her – he would force her to keep the blinds closed and wouldn’t let her out on her own.’
Police were called in last March after Hasham threw Miss Essaid onto his bed and tried to smother her during an argument when she tried to leave his house to see her mother.
‘He said he wanted to marry her in a Mosque and she said she thinks he just wants her to do the cooking and cleaning.’ On occasions, Miss Essaid had put on dresses and was immediately told to get changed and to ‘put her t*** away.’
He said: ‘Hasham would make her go and get changed out of a long skirt and put trousers on instead. He would call her a prostitute and she claims that he just wanted to her cover up at all times.
‘She also worked at a school he would not like the fact that she worked there with males. On one occasion when he was picking her up he saw her waving at a male PE teacher which caused an argument.’
Physical violence flared on February 5 when Miss Essaid said she wanted to go and see her mother. Mr. Treece added: ‘She told the defendant she needed more clothes as this was the only way he would let him see her. But the two of them argued and when she tried to get out of the bedroom he wouldn’t let her and he pushed her back onto the bed and her smothered her.’
‘On February 6 there were a large number of calls early in the morning which she says is normal of the relationship.
She told police on that morning, she went to the bus stop to get the bus from work outside her mother’s house and a few minutes later he pulled up in his car signalling for her to get in.
A bus pulled up behind and as the defendant was in the bus lane it was causing a scene so she agreed to get in the passenger seat. The court heard how he then pulled over and started verbally abusing her and called her a ‘slag, a low life and ugly’.
She started to cry but he continued. She then got a message on her phone and he grabbed her phone and bit her left hand so that she would let go. He then bent the phone causing the screen to crack.
Prosecution said: ‘As she tried to get out of the car the defendant grabbed hold of her and put his hand over her mouth so that she couldn’t scream. A passer by described the complainant as very distressed and said she could hear a man shouting very aggressively. The complainant spoke to the police and her step father picked her up from work and drove to the defendant’s house to pick up her stuff. After some time spent knocking on his door the defendant opened and said: ‘Why have you bought another man to my house?’
‘He then said to her step father: ‘I will f***ing kill you. If you know what is good for you, you will get back in your car and drive off.’
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