Intolerant bully preaches “treat human beings with human feelings”

Remember when anti-bully advocate bully Dan Savage gave a speech rant at a national journalism conference and attacked the Bible and called those who refused to listen to his rant “pansy assed?”

In his latest “Savage Love” column, the bully actually has the audacity to state, “Treat your hookups like people you might actually see again—like human beings with human feelings.”  To understand his definition of human beings with human feelings, keep on reading.  WARNING: Foul language, of course.

Hooking Up

Is it possible for a hookup to turn into a relationship?

A hookup is a relationship, HOPE. It may be a short-term relationship, but it’s a relationship regardless.

And, yes, a short-term hookup can turn into a long-term relationship, HOPE, but not if you’re treating your hookups like shit (because they’re only hookups!) and not if you’re willing to let the people you hook up with treat you like shit (because you’re only a hookup). Treat your hookups like people you might actually see again—like human beings with human feelings, not just human holes and/or polesand you might actually see them again.

You might even wind up in a long-term relationship.

Now, sometimes people hook up with strangers precisely because they wanna have sex with someone they don’t know and don’t expect to see again. And that’s not always a bad idea: Having sex with someone who you don’t expect to see again can be very liberating. A girl who can’t let herself go with a guy she’s dating—maybe she fears being slut- or nympho-shamed by a boyfriend—will grind the d*ck off a hookup. And it can be easier to ask someone you don’t expect to see again to do something kinky. Say a straight boy has always wanted a girl to put him in her panties and peg his ass. He could ask a girlfriend to do that for him, sure, but the stakes are higher. What if she freaks out and dumps him, and blabs to her friends—and his—about why she dumped him?

People who divide the f*ckable world into those they care about (and can’t open up to sexually) and those they don’t care about (and can open up to sexually but won’t date) wind up having awesome sex with people they don’t know and lousy sex with people they marry. That’s not a good strategy for anyone interested in a successful—and sexually fulfilling—long-term relationship.

So here’s what you should do, HOPE: Be uninhibited with your hookups while treating them like people you might actually see again, and insist on being treated that way in return. Don’t hook up with people who treat you like shit; don’t treat the people you hook up with like shit. Even if you know you’re not going to see someone again—maybe they’re not someone you would date, or circumstances are such that you couldn’t date them even if you wanted to (business trip, European vacation, spring break, etc.)—treat your hookups with kindness, respect, and gratitude.

Finally, HOPE, some people treat hookups like shit—only after they’ve come, natch—because they want their hookups to understand that they’re not interested in a relationship. That’s not just assholery, assholes, it’s completely unnecessary assholery. If someone was kind enough to suck your d*ck or f*ck your brains out—if someone hooked up with your ass—a little kindness and consideration isn’t too much to ask. If you’re worried that your hookup might misinterpret “kindness and consideration” for “I want to be with you forever,” tell them—gently and directly—that you’re not interested in a relationship.

{Here is the actual potty mouth perv on youtube, if you care to see it}

Apparently you are only to treat your hookups with kindness, respect, and consideration.  Those that disagree with you?  They are merely pansy asses.

DCG

8 responses to “Intolerant bully preaches “treat human beings with human feelings”

  1. The ONLY way to treat this asshole is with a BALL BAT! People like him need to be in a rubber room and left there! Semper Fi.

  2. Be nice to people when they put out, but not when they disagree. Pretty much.

  3. catscanner150

    Hey Savage, you think we’re intolerant, when you stand before the Lord after your death, you will get a hard lesson about what happens after you spend your life mocking Jesus Christ, his word and his children. How funny do you think it will be spending eternity in Hell and being tortured for every second of that eternity. You can laugh at those children now, but while your soul is enduring unimaginable pain, you will be able to see those same chidren at peace and enjoying the fruits of Heaven in the prescence of Jesus. They will have abundant food and water while you will beg for a single drop of water and a solitary crumb of food. They will enjoy the light of Jesus while you will endure the darkness of Satan for all of eternity.

  4. Cathy Gardino

    I can honestly say,…this is the most disgusting pig I have ever read and he should be arrested for speaking to kids…He is indeed “satans spawn” and he is spreading his message of filth with impunity. I wish he’d go and spread his message in Saudi Arabia, or Pakistan…

  5. “Dan Savage Accused of Bullying, Promoting Promiscuity,” by Sheila Marikar, ABC News Blogs via Yahoo! News, 1 May 2012
    http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/dan-savage-accused-bullying-promoting-promiscuity-191111675–abc-news-tv.html

  6. lowtechgrannie

    He’s very proud of his “anti-bullying” campaign that’s resulted in all those “It Gets Better” PSAs on TV.

  7. I had to have a background check to be a “Den mom” in the cub scouts, why do we let idiots like that around our kids? Who approves of this trash beforehand? Homeschool is looking better all the time!

  8. I hope and pray he and his “wife” never have a child! Can you imagine the upbringing?

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