Dedication to the Beloved Unborn

 If you’ve lost a child – through your own abortion or someone you know – we’re sorry for your loss.  We invite you to dedicate your beloved unborn to our Heavenly Father. We believe that forgiveness is God’s gift and that because He so loved the little children, that He allows them all to return Home.

A person does not have to be the parent of an unborn child to honor that child’s life…by naming or by dedication. Abortion deeply affects more than just the mother.

Consider…

  • A grandparent who talked, supported or drove their daughter to the abortion or may not even had known of their son/daughter’s pregnancy.
  • The dad whose wife/girlfriend chose abortion against his better judgement, consent or even without his knowledge.
  • Children that were told their lives would be easier because a younger sibling was aborted.
  • The friend who drove a woman to the clinic pregnant, and back home “un” pregnant.
  • A family member, friend, counselor or clergy, who tried to talk a mother/father out of an abortion, and failed.
  • The nurse, clinic worker or abortion doctor who later regrets their participation in taking the lives of the unborn

Thus some children listed may have been dedicated by their mothers, fathers, grandparents, siblings, cousins, aunt/uncles, friends, clergy etc. Individuals, much like those above, can and have received help, healing and hope through an abortion recovery program.

We believe that names for the unborn are given by God, as He personally carries His children home to Heaven. Many of the children honored here, had family members pray about what God had already named their babies prior to having them dedicated (the stories of how He shared those names are amazing)! Others chose to name the children themselves. Some picked nicknames or words of endearment!

It doesn’t really matter “how” the names were conceived, or who did it.

What matters is that these unborn babies have had their lives confirmed and dedicated to our Heavenly Father.

God blesses those who welcome his children,
as the kingdom ultimately belongs to them!
                                                                
-Matthew 9:14 & Mark 9:37 

If you’d like to leave a dedication in honor of your unborn child, or a child lost in your family due to abortion, please feel free to do so.  Simply scroll down past the dedications to the message box below. For some this might not be an easy step, for some it might be the first.  If you need to speak with an Abortion Recovery Specialist, please feel free to call us.

Online Dedication

Name: Taylor Date: 2/25/2011
Dear Tay’Leeona
baby girl i miss yew lord knoes i do im only 14 i need yew bakk i cant go on with life i cry for yew everyday

Love,mommy

State: ohio
Name: chioma Date: 2/14/2011
chimaobim (God knows my heart desire)

it still feel like yesterday,remember how calm you are in my worm,how i prayed for strength through the day of sleepless night.i love you my little angel was so happy to tell your daddy of the miracle but he but that was the beginning of my heartache,most night i will hold you close to my heart and you made me eat a lot then i add some weight how happy i was then….then come the 21st day of January when i made that horrible decision thinking it will ease my pain but it was the beginning of my worst nightmare,i should ve carried u maybe left town and start over somewhere but i listen to my stupid self and took you out.God wasn’t consulted. He wasn’t invited into my decision,You see there was never a moment that I believed having an abortion was the right thing to do. I only stubbornly and naively believed that my choice was the only ladder to grab out of the horrible pit I had dug for myself.At night, my pillow soaked up rivers of tears. I would lie awake, wondering if my baby was a boy or girl, or if my baby had felt any pain as she was being sucked from my body.
I wept and wept for both my baby and for myself. It was necessary. It felt right to cry. And though the tears helped my soul grieve.whenever i see a pregnant woman i will touch my belle…i have missed you my love and will continuously do my angel and i know you are with god and his angels and i have desperately pray to god to take my life so we can be together again but i know that one day i will hold you once more look into your eye and tell you how much i love you but till then forgive me my child please forgive me.had every right not to have that abortion but i still went ahead your my first child and for the rest of my day will continue to celebrate you.your father call me mistake but you are not a mistake.you are divine(my heartbeat) and i love you and now i have expressed what love is and you are the image of love and most days i lie awoke wondering how it will feel like the day i will be with you and know this that this eyes will never stop dropping till i see you again………..loads of love from mommy

State: lagos state
Country: Nigeria
Name: Debi H. Date: 1/31/2011
Where to start? I am now 51 years old. I had my only abortion at 17. In fact I was in the counseling office on my 17th birthday, as they told me what was going to happen. My boyfriend and I never really talked about it; it was the only thing to do. Our families would never let us be together; we were too young. His mother already thought I wasn’t good enough for him, not being of their religion. He drove me to the clinic and waited outside. When I came out, he drove me to his house, telling his mom that I was sick. I slept for hours on his bed until it was time to go home. After that all I could see was your curly hair and eyes like your father. He and I were never the same. I started sleeping around, doing drugs, drinking; anything to forget the pain and regret. I accepted Jesus Christ at 24, and He has been everything I ever needed. I still continued to stumble and fall over my life, but He never gave up on me. Even after all these years (you’d be 34 now, probably married and with your own children). I have two daughters from two different fathers, and am on my 4th (and final) marriage. The consequences have been many, but I have never stopped thinking about the day I will see you again.
State: CA
Country: United States
Name: Dee Date: 1/31/2011
Dearest Natalie Christine. When I was 18, I got pregnant. Both the father and my parents pressured me into having an abortion. I did try to save you, but in the end, I gave in. It was the worst decision I ever made. I should have fought harder to save you. I wanted you so much.
Well two weeks ago, your grandmother, my mother died on the day you would have been 37 years old. I believe my mother did repent of what she had done, but we never really talked about it. I believe she has met you and knows what a terrible thing she did. I have many miles to go before I sleep, but I will see you someday. And we will have all of eternity to be together.
Love,
Mama
State: Alabama
Country: United States
Name: K.C. Date: 1/25/2011
2/15/1994
This would have been your delivery date Ryan. Today you would be thinking about where you would like to go to college. I would’ve raised you to be intelligent, thoughtful, and kind.

I hope that somewhere in an alternate universe, you had a chance to live. I am so sorry for what I did to you and I truly hope that after I pass, I will see you in the afterlife. I so much want to meet you and to apologize to you in person.

I love you Ryan and I regret what I have done with all of my heart and soul. I’m so sorry. I pray to God Almighty for forgiveness of this horrible sin against you, nature, and “the way”.

Sincerely,

Your Mom

State: MI
Country: United States
Name: Nikka Date: 1/18/2011
My dear little girl, I’m so sorry for what I did to you. You did nothing wrong. You were precious, perfect and vulnerable. And I was scared. I acted out of impulse and you paid the price. I’m so sorry. It wasn’t your fault. Please forgive me.
Love,
Your Mama
State: FL
Country: United States
Name: Asira Date: 1/15/2011
Madeline,
I am so sorry for killing you. I love you.
I remember feeling the flutter in my stomach. I long to go back to those days and change history. You’d be 2 this July 4th. I wonder what you would look like and how our lives would be. Please know that I died that day with you. I wish it could have just been me and you lived. I am alone, ashamed, isolated, and I deserve to die alone the way that you were forced to.

I hope that you forgive me and I see you in Heaven.
Love,
Mom

State: NY
Country: United States
Name: Mindy Date: 1/14/2011
I am so sorry for what I have done. I hope you understand that I love you still, and that at the time I thought it was best for you and me to not bring you into this world. Each time I lay down at night I regret what I’ve chosen to do. Please forgive me. I hope you have already met your great grandma up in Heaven and that she is watching over you for me until we get to finally met.
Everytime I see the ultrasound pictures they took of you, I cry. The one makes you look like an angel with a halo. You were my angel and I sent you to be with God.
I constantly wonder what you would have been like, what you would look like. If you would be just as stubborn as I am.
I am so sorry Baby. I hope when the day comes that we finally meet, both you and I have forgiven me for my actions so that we may finally rejoice in being together.
State: West Virginia
Country: United States
Name: patty Date: 1/13/2011
Dear babies I can’t begin to express how sorry I am. My choice on giving you back were soooo selfish. I had so many signs to turn around and leave but I ignored them and thought my life would return back to normal. I think about my actions everyday and every night praying I could move on but its so hard to go on without thinking about you both. Please forgive me but I know you are with God right now having the time of your lives. I know healing will take time and I have to deal with it. Just know that not a day goes by that I don’t think about you both. God please forgive me. Know my heart. I want to follow you Lord. The only man that I want to want and long for is you. In Jesus name I pray Amen.
State: missouri
Country: United States
Name: jon Date: 1/6/2011
dear baby,
i am so sorry. your mother and i were so young, scared and confused. i see my little niece and nephew almost everyday and think how you should be running around and playing with them. i am so sorry for not ever giving you the chance to enjoy them as much as i do. i will never forgive myself for not ever giving you your chance. when i think about the decision your mother and i made, i realize that it was never mine to make. we were so scared of how people would react to hearing about us having a baby that we made the most horrible decision we could have ever made. please forgive me baby even though i know i can never forgive myself. i know you are the most beautiful baby up in heaven and cannot wait to see your beautiful face. i would trade everything to bring you back. tell jesus i say thank you for taking such wonderful care of the most precious baby ever. daddy loves you and thinks about you every day.
State: mn
Country: United States
Name: Jessica Date: 1/3/2011
Dear sweet Zanna Grace,

You were and are truely a gift from God. I am so sorry for not giving you the chance to be here with everyone who loves you. Please forgive me for my selfish choice. Someday, I hope to see you in heaven. I want nothing more than to hold you, love you, and be with you. If I could do it all over again, I would have NEVER aborted you. I love you more than anything in this world and no one or nothing will ever replace you or the place you have in my heart. God has you in his hands, and I will always have you in my heart.

Until we meet again,
Mommy

State: Ok
Country: United States

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If anyone reading these is moved to write a letter to their own beloved unborn, they can do so at this website.  Note, this is just for the month of Jan 2011—- they go on for pages and pages.  ~LTGhttp://www.abortionrecovery.org/messages/onlinededicationfortheunborn/tabid/211/Default.aspx

12 responses to “Dedication to the Beloved Unborn

  1. Heartbreaking….
    Though aborted, he/she was, for a time, a living person — a human being created in His image — not an inert lump of flesh.

  2. lowtechgrannie

    The anguish, guilt and regret in these letters is staggering. I’ve been reading through others on the site, many written years and years after the abortion and these women are so racked with remorse at what they’ve done.

    The FDA requires warning labels and side effects for drugs and medications. Do Planned Parenthood and all those Womens’ Rights organizations tell a girl that one side effect of her “choice” is emotional anguish for the rest of her life?

    • Emotional anguish will persist until the woman repents and asks God for forgiveness. Confession of the sin of abortion is the answer.

      “though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow” (Isaiah 1:18)
      “I…am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more.” (Isaiah 43:25)
      “I have swept away your offenses like a cloud, your sins like the morning mist. Return to me, for I have redeemed you.” (Isaiah 44:22)

    • No,LTG, they don’t. In fact, they don’t even suggest the possibility of adoption. One of my dear friends, many years ago, told me two weeks after the fact because she knew I’d talk her out of it if she told me before. It changed her life forever. She chose to become an adoption advocate.

  3. lowtechgrannie

    Yes, many of these women mention repentence and coming the Christ after their abortions. Rightfully, the judges who decided on Roe v. Wade and legislators who vote to fund Planned Parenthood should be writing their letters to the Unborn. This site’s video names 53,000,000 abortions since the Roe v. Wade decision!

    • Jane Roe of Roe v. Wade (real name Norma McCorvey) repented, converted to Catholicism, and is an outspoken pro-life advocate. Bless her!

  4. lowtechgrannie

    I know that in any crisis situation involving a baby or toddler, the ongoing expense is disposable diapers. They’re not covered in the food stamp program.
    An apartment unit in our town burned down last year and people were taking collections of food and clothing outside our local Albertsons. As I was going in to shop, I asked the samaritans manning the collections area in the vestibule what they particularly needed to support the 28 families who’d been burned out of their homes. Three ladies shouted DIAPERS! All sizes from newborn to toddler size!

  5. I anonymously donated eggs to a fertility clinic, and I have no way of knowing if any of the eggs resulted in embryos that were aborted or destroyed in the fertility process. If any of my biological children’s lives were taken in that way, they live on in my heart, and I daily pray for them and for their forgiveness.

  6. lowtechgrannie

    Sagbe-Brush, you are a treasure! God bless you!

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  8. Different, but not quite… here’s someone who got rid of her kids (and hubby) after birth when they became inconvenient.

    “The opposite of a ‘Tiger Mother’: leaving your children behind,” by Lylah M. Alphonse, Shine, 4 Mar 11

    http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/the-opposite-of-a-tiger-mother-leaving-your-children-behind-2460982/

    Kids… disposable, for her writing career. Decides kids (and husband) get in the way of writing her politically-correct book on Hiroshima, so adios!

    “Ten years ago, when her sons were 5 and 3, Rizzuto received a fellowship to spend six months in Japan, researching a book about the survivors of Hiroshima. Four months in, when her children came to visit, she had an epiphany: She didn’t want to be a full-time mother anymore. When she returned to New York, she ended her 20-year marriage and chose not to be her kids’ custodial parent. …”

    • She claims the relationship with her kids survived and has actually “improved” according to her. (No word by or about her ex… I’m figuring that he was her childhood sweeheart and was married to her for 20 years, including supporting her trip to Japan, so he STILL isn’t happy or even civil about the whole thing.) Reality may not be so rosy for anyone… except her.

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